I think we all need to remember we all have pain, and all of us have good and bad days and say things we don,t mean. this site is good to vent and everyone needs that.Sue, Donna, HCH and all the others are really here to help and on there own time.So if you want to really scream at someone you can use me. I'm a big boy and can take it. i'm also going in for a "STELIC GANGLIAN BLOCK" ON MY NECK FOR PAIN I,TS A NOVICANE TO HELP RESET MY NECK BY GIVING IT A REST. hopefully it will work. will let beveryone know how it goes. They say they can do this on any body part.PAIN FREE IS THE WAY TO BE.